“True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.” ― Erich Segal
And this is exactly how true love showed up in my life.
If I didn’t know what I know I would have missed this opportunity with my husband.
True love was something that I always believed in and what I always wanted. I knew it was possible for me but there were times when I also doubted and even pondered whether I was just meant to be alone.
I spent so many years in relationships, longing, wishing, hurting and hoping. And in my loneliness moments and single seasons, when doubt used to crawl in I would lean on to faith that there was a man out there praying for a woman like me just as much as I was praying for him.
I was willing for my heart to be broken open, saying to God daily: “I am now ready. Thank you for my divine love husband who has walked into my life.”
A couple of years later…he entered my life.
A serendipitous moment – one where I could not even imagine would’ve happened.
I had arrived home from yoga coming out of my car and he was on the opposite side of the road getting ready to leave from my neighbours house. I didn’t see him, he saw me and remembered ‘that girl’ from 10 years ago who he never saw again up until this point. He knew right then and there he had to find a way to get my number.
“Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous” – Albert Einstein
And as they say, the rest is history.
I’ll tell you the full story another time.
But let me tell you this now, true love — the kind that genuinely flows from both sides, with no fireworks to begin with — can be sweeter than banners or flashing lights.
And let me tell you another thing, on our first date, I drove home in tears because I didn’t think that he was ‘the one.’
I’m so glad I listened to my guidance.
Sometimes we can not even imagine how our soul mate is going to show up. And they may even show up wearing different clothing with what we had in mind, which is what happened to me.
Some women (and men of course) can miss out on their opportunity of true love because they have in mind of what the other person should look like physically and therefore turn the other way.
Don’t be too fixated on how your person should look like, yeah sure, you have to be some what physically attracted to them but focus more on how they make you FEEL and how YOU want to feel. This feeling can lead to juicer connection in and out of the bedroom regardless of their looks.
I get so many emails from women in their 20’s, 30’s and even 50’s looking for love or getting over heartbreak and feel they will end up alone. I can tell you, what you believe in strongly will come to you.
It happened for me in my 40’s and I truly believe once we’ve become clear and committed to healing our wounds and on the path of loving ourselves it’s just a matter of divine timing.
So, if you are still looking for the kind of passionate and spiritually based love that makes you feel safe, respected and where you can be vulnerable enough to show your true self, do not lose faith. Your person is looking for you just as much as you are looking for him!
AND . . . I would love to support you in feeling more calm and excited about your love life. Even if you are in a relationship and you would like to take it up to a soul mate level!
You’re invited to my free workshop: 3 Secrets to Becoming Irresistible, And Having A Healthy Loving Relationship Or Meeting Your Mr. Right.
The recording is available for a limited time and you can grab it here now.
I so can’t wait for you to dive in & see the positive shifts in your love life!